Actually I prefer my abs to not show damage.
Call it old school but I liked going "okay that guy takes 3 hits, this one takes 2... and I can take 8". Zelda set. I have my hearts/hp/health bar - whatever you'd call it, and the enemies have their crap hidden. I don't see that I caused "108" points of damage. I don't see that I was hit for "402" points of damage. I see that my health just dropped, I see that they blinked red, and thus I damaged them.
A sound effect for me getting hit.
A sound effect for them getting hit.
A sound effect for them getting hit but dealing no damage - you remember in old ABS games when you'd hit a shield or try to hurt something with the wrong weapon, there was a "ding" like you hit your sword to stone? That was awesome.
It's old school but I really liked it. And since your asking what "you", as in "I" look in an ABS I'm tossing it out there. Most people hate that though - the pansies >